I know I am gender-stereotyping when I say I need a wife, but there really is t a better way to say it. Unless I say I need a 1950’s style wife. Lol. I need someone to wash my dishes and clean my house. I know that what I really want is a housekeeper but to say I need one of those would give people the idea that we somehow have the means to afford one anytime soon. I would like to be able to afford one when we get the house built. But for right now I am taking care of 3-4 kids (only one of whom can do chores and we only see her 2 days every 2 weeks), running a farm, building a house, and running a small part time business. So my house is far from being clean. Sometime in the next few days I need to take the trash out, put the laundry away, mop the kitchen floor, clean the kitchen counter, clean the bathrooms, and vacuum upstairs, and put away some of the moving boxes. I am way to tired to do any of that crap. How do people hold it all together? I am so tired.